Another one bites the dust.
October 21, 2007
Well thanks to all the money and power in the world. This one couldn’t be stopped.
I recived the news this morning that one of my old friends. Finaly killed herself.
She was found dead in her apt yesterday morning. She overdosed.
Why was a known drug addict and extremely suicidal young girl living in an apt by herself several blocks away from her family?
Because G-d forbid she would effect the other (frum) children in her family.
Welcome to reality.
This is a big ol FUCK YOU to her parents!!
-Shmutzi
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shitalphin | October 21, 2007 at 3:04 pm
well the joke’s on them because a suicide in the family is terrible for shiduchim.
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kisarita | October 21, 2007 at 4:03 pm
i don’t understand why the parents think they are protecting their children from bad influence. why do they think their other kids will WANT to be so miserable???
unless they know deep down they’re kids are miserable anyway because of the life they, the parents are giving them.
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kisarita | October 21, 2007 at 4:06 pm
but on the other hand you really don’t want drugs around little kids, and addicts can make the lives of the people around them miserable, so i don’t know.
anyway, did she want to live with them?
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shitalphin | October 21, 2007 at 4:15 pm
HELLOOOO! SHE’S DEAD! WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?
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LEAH KLEIM | October 21, 2007 at 7:33 pm
who was it ? lets do something for her memory and to stop this
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shmutzi | October 21, 2007 at 7:53 pm
What would you like to do for her memory?
I’m down.
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shachar | October 21, 2007 at 10:10 pm
Ya whats her name. Its importanat!
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Guravitzer | October 21, 2007 at 10:38 pm
Baruch Dayan HaEmes.
I am sure there is more to this story, but tell me truthfully – do you think she would have been a beneficial influence on the other children?
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shmutzi | October 22, 2007 at 4:04 am
well now that they see how little their parents cared. and how they let her die. they will remember that forever.
what do you think?
I don’t think they would have been influenced much. I think now, they will be forever.
Her name is Shaindy, she was 23. from flatbush.
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shitalphin | October 22, 2007 at 8:02 am
guravitzer,
go back to mentalblog with your dumbass baruch dayan emes and bad influence bulllshit. you know what you do you deal with it because it’s your kid and they don’t come with guarantees that they’ll sit around the shabes table and sing zmiros like angels.
religion fucks up everything. here you had abraham a perfectly lovely person that god told to kill one son and throw out the other and go around smoting and smiting and plaguing and destroying and lying and tricking. we must’ve edited the part where he asks god wtf is the matter with you? when did you get such a bug up your ass? god of mercy, who came up with that, howard rubenstein?
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Reb Yakov Leib HaKohain | October 22, 2007 at 9:27 am
From C. G. Jung’s “Answer to Job:”
“[Yahweh] is too unconscious to be moral. By this I do not mean to say that Yahweh is imperfect or evil, like some gnostic demiurge. He is EVERYTHING IN ITS TOTALITY; therefore, among other things, he is total justice and its total opposite, At least this is the way he must be conceived of if one is to form a unified picture of his character…..From the way the divine nature expresses itself we can see that its individual qualities are not adequately related to one another, with the result that they fall apart into MUTUALLY CONTRADICTORY ACTS.” (paragraph 574)
– Yalhak
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Guravitzer | October 22, 2007 at 10:54 pm
I didn’t say that I would throw my child out, I didn’t say she was a bad influence, and G-d is G-d of mercy and destruction and sometimes both at the same time. What am I, a xtian?
Forget this story, forget their being religious or Jewish or even this being one family: I would like to hear from you that you truly believe that having a drug addict (not simply wild, not simply stopped observance) in a house with children is a good idea. I don’t mean adult who have chosen their life and can only be influence if they choose. You think a drug addict won’t offer drugs to kids?
It doesn’t mean abandoning them either, they can be helped and kept in the family in other ways. But this is simply irresponsible. Instead of making this about the death of a precious human being, you make this about keeping druggies in a house with kids?!
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FOX | October 23, 2007 at 12:46 am
Two teenagers in my community committed suicide within a week of each other. The most recent one being last night. They were both musicians, living seemingly normal lives, and neither seemed overly depressed.
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HSD | October 23, 2007 at 3:39 am
Shmutzi I am sorry to hear about your friend.
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shitalphin | October 23, 2007 at 10:13 am
i don’t think a drug addict will offer drugs to his/her siblings. while under your roof there will be an ongoing attempt to get the child off of drugs and the other children told that xyz has an illness and hopefully that will be the greatest deterrent to the other children. i think almost anything is better than telling/showing your children that rivkie was bad so we sent her out to die.
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shitalphin | October 23, 2007 at 3:09 pm
leah’s little brother’s video goodbye to her. i love it.
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Guravitzer | October 23, 2007 at 4:44 pm
You are deluded. A drug addict will do anything, that is one element of the danger to themselves. Either way, yes I wish the parents had done enough to save their child.
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HI MON | October 23, 2007 at 5:05 pm
” A drug addict will do anything, that is one element of the danger to themselves’
Are you talkink out of experiens?
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shmutzi | October 24, 2007 at 12:10 am
She would never have offered it to any of her siblings. you must have a sick twisted mind. She was self medicating her pain of years and years of abuse.
Self medicating. not offering it to anyone else. shit the first time i told her I was going to do coke she had a shit fit, told me I dont need that shit and it was just going to fuck me up. but if thats my death wish she wouldn’t be able to stop me.
HSD’ If I remember correctly, you met her a few times. She name was shaindy. she was really beautiful and exotic looking. I remember her talking about how crass you were
It would have been a few years ago.
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HSD | October 24, 2007 at 2:56 am
Shmutzi I am not sure I remember a Shaindy. ( I am a burnout though) Was she at the rainbow gathering? Where else would i have met her? Well if she called me crass at least I know she was honest
Young people with bright futures dont deserve to go out like that.I am sorry that it happened to her
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itche newman | November 27, 2007 at 12:09 am
1.in such cases its more commun for the teen to run away (for fear their parents will take away their supply this way custing them more money…) then the parents actually throwing them out.
2.was it a (accidental) overdose, or a suicide?
if its a overdose then the quistion is why nobody forcebly out her into a rehab.
if it was a suicide, thenit is a medicaly proven fact that suiced is a sickness like any other, just that its locatin is in the mind. one who deis of suiced is just as tragic as someone who deis as from cancer ch”v.
btw who paid for her apartment?
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Isa (I am around Failed Messiah alot) | December 2, 2007 at 9:04 pm
Uncle in Law had this son who had dropped out of high school. Took drugs was drunk all the time etc etc etc. Even was forced into a clinic cause he had TB. Homeless in LA etc etc. Uncle in Law passed away. left his son $6,000. The rest of the family felt he should not be given the $6,000 all at once just $600 at a time. So instead of getting cheap wine that is only less than 10% alcohol, this time he could afford whiskey! He found dead of alcohol overdose(poisoning) on a LA sidewalk. He was cremated without ceremony and the ashes spread out over an aunt’s flower garden in the LA area.